"For although they knew God, They neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but
their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.”
Romans 1:21
From beginning to end, and for a variety of reasons, the
scriptures exhort us to develop a sense of gratitude. It is worth stating that gratitude is much more
than an emotion. It is a foundational disposition or orientation towards
reality. And without it, the above text reveals, we cannot perceive reality
properly. We are hardwired for gratitude and we simply cannot reason or function properly without it. Personally, I am grateful for the season of Thanksgiving
in which I have had the opportunity to express thanksgiving and I know the One
to Whom I am to express it.
I would like you to consider an excerpt from an article from
the Harvard Mental Health Letter, entitled “In Praise of Gratitude” ( November,
2011) which emphatically, although perhaps unintentionally, drives home the
resonance between the biblical worldview and empirical research in the area of
“ Human Wellness”.
The word gratitude is derived from the Latin
word gratia, which means grace, graciousness, or gratefulness (depending
on the context). In some ways gratitude encompasses all of these meanings.
Gratitude is a thankful appreciation for what an individual receives, whether
tangible or intangible. With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in
their lives. In the process, people usually recognize that the source of that
goodness lies at least partially outside themselves. As a result, gratitude
also helps people connect to something larger than themselves as individuals —
whether to other people, nature, or a higher power.
In positive psychology research, gratitude is
strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive
emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity,
and build strong relationships.
People feel and express gratitude in multiple
ways. They can apply it to the past (retrieving positive memories and being
thankful for elements of childhood or past blessings), the present (not taking
good fortune for granted as it comes), and the future (maintaining a hopeful
and optimistic attitude). Regardless of
the inherent or current level of someone's gratitude, it's a quality that
individuals can successfully cultivate further.
The results of gratitude studies reinforce what is
intuitively obvious. The middle
paragraph carefully summarizes studies done by scholars such as Dr. Robert
Emmons at the University of California at Davis. And the final sentence of the quote is
telling. We are able to successfully
cultivate gratitude further. We have choices that affect our sense of gratitude
which in turn affect our happiness.
Why not consider making a list or starting a gratitude
journal. Look for things for which to be grateful. Express gratitude. Mull the list over in your
minds. In fact, we all know what it is like to fixate on perceived wrongs or
hurts, complete with endless rehearsals.
Why not employ the same mental apparatus for the good. Indeed, Dr.
Emmons states as a conclusion of his research that gratitude is able to
displace negative thought and feeling. And I know from experience that if we
are not passive about it and actively look for “reasons for gratitude”, it
certainly does.
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